Wednesday, August 1, 2018

Death by cow

It has been a very busy week for me riding wise. First up was a jump lesson in the indoor.


I have been avoiding the indoor with Shiraz. Even though she has been going nicely lately in the outdoor, the indoor remained an issue with the large overhead doors on both ends open for the summer. Shiraz had issues with outdoor noises and random people/horses passing outside. I really just wanted more good rides under my belt before tackling it but rain on lesson day forced me to get to it sooner.

Shiraz was tense but I managed to get her trotting out and mostly listening. Drama llama had too many feelings though and in her distress picked up a new bad habit: flinging her head up and down in intense protest of her lot in life. Even once we started jumping the head toss did not let up. The good news was Shiraz was at least giving fabulous jump efforts that impressed coach B.

She ended up throwing in a buck on our approach to the jump line at one point. I was not surprised and felt she was just trying to deal with her tense back muscles. I had to pull up and reapproach which then went fine.

After the lesson Shiraz got a day off and for my next ride I decided to ride in the indoor. It was empty of jumps and freshly harrowed (<3). I focused only on relaxation and rhythm, and eventually achieved it after about 45 minutes of trot circles and serpentines. I loved it.

Then on Monday I had arranged a lesson with one of our local derby organizers. My hope was to get Shiraz out to somewhere new and get more experience before the Willville derby later in August. She is a talented rider and coach that I admire so I was thrilled when she agreed to give me a lesson out at her farm (she has built her own xc course!).

This proved to be a lesson I desperately needed. As I warmed up in her outdoor sand arena, coach P asked me about any issues I was having. I told her about the spooking and noted that particularly when Shiraz catches sight of something through the trees at my barn, that she gets very distracted/emotional and has done a very nasty spin and bolt. I also told her everything I have been doing to get past this so far.
As we started doing basic flat work I was actually pleasantly surprised with how Shiraz was feeling. She settled in quickly to the new space and felt relaxed. And then there were cows.


This coach's arena was located beside a bush and in that bush was the path a herd of cows used to get back and forth from barn area to pasture. We did not even hear them; Shiraz and I both spotted movement at the same time and I pulled her up fast as her eyes bulged out of her head. I told coach P I was going to get off. SHE SAID NOPE.


I sat there kind of hunching into to fetal position and coach P said get her feet moving. I just couldn't at first; instead I said goodbye to my friends who had come with me to watch. I swore. I told my pony about all the carrots that would be in her future if I lived. Then I tried to make her move.


First it was mostly flailing, trying to bolt, trying to rear, then we got some walking happening. As I dealt with her fit and expanded the area we could handle, I started to feel more and more confident to handle it. Soon we reclaimed the whole arena and I was able to make Shiraz ignore the bush and trot forward, albeit now head bobbing with her anxiety.

It couldn't have been a better lesson for me. I was so happy to have ridden through it. By the end Shiraz was back to relaxed and I was able to ride along while coach P gave my friends and me a tour of her xc field. It was only a little disappointing that I didn't get to jump at all. Luckily though coach P invited us back when we can to get xc time with her.

And yes, Shiraz received many carrots once we got back home.


12 comments:

  1. BUT OMG COWS EET HORSES, DIDNT U KNOW THAT?!?!?

    Srsly tho nice job working through it. It’s not really fun or anything anybody ever really wants to do or deal with, but yet it’s gotta get done and dealt with to get to the good stuff later (like your next xc lesson!!!). Good for you for making it happen!

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    1. Seriously how did I ever get so chicken?! But working my way back to brave bit by bit :)

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  2. Good for you. Getting the feet moving is the hardest thing. I still have to talk myself into it. Our lizard brains think it’s safer to be still but it’s not.

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    1. It was so tough to get going but cool to feel it working.

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  3. Eek, glad you guys sorted it out! Well done sticking through it :) I'm a bit lucky in that my horses live with cows so they don't give a crap about them. But I have a friend who's horse is absolutely terrified of cows, if he even smells cows on a path he's walking on he will lose his mind.

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    1. That would be horrible! Luckily Shiraz is not that bad. It was more that she could see "something" moving but the trees were so thick they would appear and disappear. SO scary!! Lol

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  4. Ummm, those pictures (minus the bucking) look exactly like P in mare form! I almost died by cow once during a jump lesson a couple years ago- a cow got one of those blue barrels STUCK ON ITS HEAD and was running around like a maniac. I also wasn't allowed to get off, and thought for sure that was the end.

    SO great job on staying on, you totally kicked ass, and the more you go back there, the less of a big deal it'll be!

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    1. That sounds horrifying, lol! Thanks, ya it was such a huge deal for me to ride through that. I used to be such a brave rider. Honestly now I am starting to believe I'll get back to that level again😊

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  5. I was wondering where you were and decided to check in and see you moved your blog. I will add you to my blogroll. πŸ’•

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